Let me ask you – How often do you wonder if what your doing has any purpose and meaning? How often do you question what your life is worth? To many people don’t see their own worth…. My aunt as an example. She was a: kind, smart, talented, caring, and fun actress who touched so many people ones she knew and didn’t ever meet. Sadly she never grasped her worth. She was so hard on herself, She would say I wish I could do better or was better. She was a wonderful woman who brought joy to so many. she touched so many lives in such great ways… Yet she didn’t value herself much.
We all live different lives, we all are unique individuals and we all have impact on others. It could be in our: local community; an online community – games, forums,chat-rooms, Facebook, YouTube instagram twitter, work; school; church; family; etc… Anytime you talk to someone else you are effecting or affecting their lives and day in some way. Do you make people smile? Or do you tear people down.. But….. He/she treats me like…… That doesn’t matter your not measuring their worth, you are measuring ours… We have need to take responsibly and be accountable how we treat others. You want to know what your worth is? Look at how you treat others..
We may say: I am who I am? I just want to be myself why do I have to be nice… The bible say treat others as you want to be treated. (Luke6:31) Even if you don’t believe in the Bible or God, it is a good rule to live by. So let me ask you – How do you want others to treat you? Sadly others may not threat you kind and there are some who will never treat you the way you wish they would… But that doesn’t affect your Value! So what if there is one person who doesn’t appreciate you… If you see it or not there are people who you touch.
Lets talk about our appearance next. Are we what society says is: overweight, thin, sexy, tall, short, beautiful, handsome, homely, athletic, etc? What else do they say about us? Wait!!!!!!!! That’s labeling!!! We may fit into one of those categories but that does not define our worth! Those labels can act as boosters or most common as restraints. We tie ourselves down by what others say we are or what we can do. We need to stop doing that. Because let me tell you Your worth is un-measurable, your value is priceless!
It doesn’t matter what you do, how you or how you look. Only you an decide your importance, our value, our worth. We are invaluable, Priceless, irreplaceable, precious, incomparable, unequaled.
I challenge you to do as I am doing: Tell yourself you are important, you are beautiful, handsome, sexy, and awesome! Tell yourself you can succeed and that you wont give up on whatever you are reaching for. DO it as often as you need to and you will start to be happier. We all get emotional and have down days but its just a moment in time, and it will pass. Stay strong and don’t be afraid to talk to others when you need encouragement and support. You have purpose and meaning. No one can be better you, you are un-matched.
I love ya – don’t forget you are awesome!!!
╰ღ╮❤╭ღ╯ Amy Jane ╰ღ╮❤╭ღ╯
I am still waiting on my Editor’s reply and my Mother’s input on my facts.. While waiting I have been working on revising my short story and writing more of it. Plus editing some fan fictions.. Several are still on hold. And I am sorry to all who have been waiting…. I hope I can remember the plots and get back to them soon.
I also Decided that no matter what my editor says about my book, I should convert it to first person again.. Which I am not looking forward too.. It is 77pages right now and 16 thousand words……. Not as much as another book on the far back burner.. But It will be a huge chore.. AT least there is a lot of talking so not all of it has to be changed.. Still I am on the edge of my seat waiting for her reply!! I am not good at waiting…….
So I have been having a lot of trouble thinking and working on my other books.. Not good, I need to relax more… (Maple story is not so Good at that) ;p
But thanks to reading some one else’s novel in progress from an editor’s point of view, I have found some clarity and some writing passion again.. Yet I have to go play maple… I promised a friend lol.. TOMORROW I WORK!!!
Ps. Today is my presious nephew’s Birthday!! I had a plan and I failed to follow through.. I need to go it soon.., You will see what I want to do for him and the family latter!
Love you all, I mean it!!