That is the best advice I can give besides love one another and forgive…. It truthfully only hurts you when you hold things in or hold a grudge… It Doing so can physically make you ill. Drs have proven that true. Be healthy, talk things out or just go talk to someone in general. We learn so much from talking to eachother. We are living in stressful time where our communication has been threatened. Don’t let what’s going on divide you. People matter,  you matter!

🤔 WHOMEVER you are with make them feel special and safe. Encourage each other and support each other.

If you’re not already doing so of course. Especially if it’s someone you don’t want to lose. When he or she knows how important to you they are  then he or she won’t be looking for another  person to fill the gaps you may be leaving open in the relationship. If you can’t take time to tell them or show them how much they matter to you…. Then why are you with the person?

Feeling  ugly, worthless, and unappreciated is what causes cheating to happen.💔 Just food for thought, sadly I see a lot of relationships suffer from lack of encouragement, communication and positivity. There is no such thing as a perfect relationship all relationships take work. It is impossible to be perfect. But making the effort is what matters most.

“For couples so eager to call it quits💔 and throw in the towel on your relationships because everything isn’t “perfect”🤭… here is some food for thought🤔. Life long commitment is not what most people think it is😯. It’s not waking up every morning to make breakfast and eat together🍳🥞🍽. It’s not cuddling in bed until both of you fall asleep, peacefully, at night🛌. It’s not a clean home filled with laughter and lovemaking, everyday💐. It’s someone who steals all the covers (and snores hella loud!) 😳😴. It’s slammed doors 🚪 and a few harsh words🤬🤬, at times. It’s stubbornly disagreeing 😡😠 and giving each other the silent treatment 😶 until your hearts heal💔💔…and, then…FORGIVENESS💙❤️! It’s coming home 🏠 to the same person💏, everyday, that you know LOVES💑 and CARES about you in spite of (and because of) who you are. It’s laughing🤪🤪 about the one time you accidentally did something stupid😜. It’s about dirty laundry😝 and unmade beds 🛏WITHOUT finger pointing👉🏾👈🏽. It’s about helping each other with the hard work of life! 🤝 It’s about swallowing the nagging words instead of saying them out loud🤮🤢. It’s about eating the cheapest and easiest meal you can make and sitting down together at a late hour 🕛 to eat because you both had a crazy day 🙆🏻‍♀️🙆🏽‍♂️. It’s when you have an emotional breakdown 🙇🏻‍♀️🙇🏻‍♂️and your Love ❤️💙lays with you and holds you and tells you everything is going to be okay😍…and you BELIEVE them☺️☺️. It’s about still loving someone even though, sometimes, they make you absolutely insane🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♂️. Loving someone is not easy🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♂️….sometimes it’s extremely hard🙎🏽‍♂️🙍🏽‍♀️; but it’s amazing and comforting and one of the BEST things you’ll ever experience!💏 If you are 🙌🏼 BLESSED🙌🏼 to have a wonderful partner💏 in your life, that is awesome!

[ I copied this off Facebook but edited it a little.]

Life and people are precious. Both need to be cherished and treated softly. So Smile, let go of the past and Embrace every day and every person you care for… Smile.. ❤

ღ╮❤╭ღ╯ Amy Jane ╰ღ╮❤╭ღ╯